Dating coaching is a new advent in finding "the one." Since the pioneers of the matching-making field first arose on social media, the niche has become filled with wannabes and credential-less people trying to help. But one facet of dating coaching many miss. It's the one that sets working with me apart from the noise. It's the you factor. Learning the rules and mechanics of how to look and sound right is essential. However, until you know who you are, you'll keep settling for the wrong person repeatedly. That's what a dating coach does. We help you clarify who you are and solidify who you're looking for. That way, you can go out into the dating world with confidence and a discerning eye.

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What does a dating coach do?

In dating coaching with me, Elaine from SexWithElaine.com, dating coaching is multidimensional and streamlined. You get all the most practical and valuable parts of sex, dating, and relationship coaching combined. You get the result you're looking for as quickly as possible.

Stop moving through the world of dating confused and stuck on the wrong people. After dating coaching with me you'll have a concrete vision and an open heart. You'll actually be ready to meet the right person. 

As a dating expert, I've helped dozens and dozens of people start making moves in the right direction. The one thing I've learned is you need to approach dating with a concrete understanding of who you are and what you're looking for. That's why the Sex With Elaine difference has made me a dating expert and a revolutionary voice in the field. 

Phases of dating coaching

When you work with me as a dating coach, there are stages for you to move through. Each step has a purpose, established activities, and practices all proven to work. 

Yes, the first few stages feel slow. But that's where we get the important work done. They are all designed to help you discover and build a lasting relationship. 

Let me break down each stage of the Sex With Elaine difference.

Phase 1 – Glow in

You need to find out who you really are.

Most people wander through life in a societally-induced coma. A coma that has deadened their identity and forced them to hide parts of their personality.

That is what I'm helping you avoid.

During the Glow in dating coaching phase, we'll spend time discovering and defining life as your authentic self. 

Your authentic self is within you already. All I'm going to do is help you understand and define it. By asking productive and helpful questions, you'll rediscover someone who you thought you may have lost long ago.

You'll go through stages of discovery, inquiry, and intensive self-care. These help you become curious about who you think you are now. I want you to feel celebrated and worshiped by the person you love. The best way to start attracting the attention of someone is to be the most attractive person in any room. I can teach you how to do that. How to be the most magnetic personality in any room you walk into. 

How do you be the most attractive and magnetic person in any room?

Stop apologizing for who you are.

Stop hiding all the "nasties" you perceive yourself to have. Show yourself authentically and unapologetically.

Phase 2 – Glow out

One of the biggest frustrations women come to me with is their appearance. They feel that their clothes and style could be better defined. They feel almost blurred around the edges.

Part of the dating coaching experience includes highlighting and accentuating your natural beauty.

I'm going to teach you how to show off your best features and get others to see and appreciate your natural beauty.

Part of this stage of the dating coaching journey will be going through your closet. You'll finally eliminate all those outfits you hide beneath.

I want you to emblematize and celebrate your identity in every single way. That starts with the outfits and styles that the world sees you in. 

By filling your wardrobe with things that show the world you're embracing yourself, you're showing the world you're fully ready for love. 

We'll find suitable color palettes and makeup styles that help you shine in every circumstance.

That way, you're fully prepared and confident once you are ready to enter the dating arena. And confidence is always sexy. 

Don't worry. This will be a makeover of your own design.

This isn't going to be like a reality show spin-off.

I will teach you the fundamentals of style and how to appear approachable. Then, you'll take the reins and make choices for yourself.

You're the master of your dating journey. We're just here to guide you along the way. 

Phase 3 – Seduction 

Seduction is much more than how it appears in the media. You'll have to learn how to seduce yourself first to blow the minds of your future lovers. This will be an intensive sex re-education. You'll take the basic knowledge of sex and adjust it to fit with modern research and up-to-date facts.

You'll learn countless things you thought you knew about sex, including (but definitely not limited to):

• The secrets of buying great sex toys

• How to have mind-blowing orgasms

• How to give an amazing blow job

• And so much more!

By the time you finish the third stage of dating coaching, you'll be the seductress you've always hoped to be. 

While breaking hearts isn't the intention, you'll likely break a few during this time. 

Phase 4 – Selection

Now, this is the real meat-and-potatoes aspect of the dating coaching journey.

During the Selection process, you'll learn how to build an irresistible dating profile for whatever app you're on.

You'll also learn to spot red flags before they are mentioned.

As a highly evolved dater – you'll learn how to read between the lines of profiles and even off-hand phrases said on dates. Hence, you stop wasting time with situationships and half-hearted pursuits. 

You'll be able to spread your wings and start implementing some sexual and authenticity exercises you've learned. 

Why is this important?

You'll learn the conversational tactics and active listening skills missing from your dating experience. You'll also learn to use eye contact and your identity to lure in people you may perceive as "out of your league." This is so much more than just building a dating profile. This builds you up so you go on dates with that sexy confidence you've been searching for. 

Phase 5 – Strategy 

Now that you know what you're looking for and who you are, you'll need an effective dating strategy. At this point in dating coaching, you're ready to spread your wings (and legs) and really fly. But before you jump off the cliff into the dating world, I'll help you streamline the experience.

No more floundering whenever a person asks you out on a date. You'll have specific locations you've cultivated where you feel safe taking a first date.

You'll know exactly what you'll wear and what questions you'll need to ask. While this may sound like it takes the spontaneity out of the dating experience, that's the point.

I'll never discourage you from following your heart. But I will teach you what questions to ask, so you can cut the negative love-suckers out of your life.

By learning how to spot these soul-sucking toxic people, you'll rediscover optimism and excitement for dates. 

Why should I choose you as a dating coach?

That is a great question.

I've trained in all aspects of love.

I have degrees and certifications in relationships,  psychotherapy, sexology, and interpersonal development.

Because of my many experiences, I can see all aspects of a relationship from the start.

These niches interconnect and intertwine when you build a love connection with another person. That's why I'm here to walk you through the experience and bring all of these into one place. You'll stop guessing and start knowing.

You'll break the cycle of ghosting and situationships and come out on top. You'll discover the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with if that's what you're looking for.

Once you leave the dating coaching program, you'll know how to take the relationship you found and build it up. That way it's strong enough to last a lifetime.

You'll know how to cope with heartbreak and disappointment and stop living in fear of those things. You'll change how you see yourself and your lifeline to a bright, forward-thinking light. That's the Sex With Elaine difference.

Other programs only teach you a small part of the dating world. I'll cover all your bases, so you're ready to really find love. 

Conclusion

What do dating coaches do? Generally, quite a bit.

In my work as a dating coach, I go above and beyond. Because of this, you'll be ready for all parts of a relationship. You'll become a dating expert in your own right. You'll find that you'll be able to help friends and loved ones make the connections that they've been hunting for. You'll be part of the sexual revolution and bursting with knowledge so that you can live the sex life you've always dreamed of. At Sex With Elaine, good is never enough. I'll always strive to give you the most from your dating coaching experience.

“Sexual liberation is the root of all liberation.”

— J. Adam Snyder

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