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Dating Someone With Depression | How you can support yourself and your partner
Mental health awareness is growing every day.
Depression is discussed in nearly every mental health forum, but if you're dating someone with depression, you may feel lost on how to help them.
The fact that you're doing research on this topic shows not only that you care but that you're likely a walking green flag of a partner. Dating someone with depression may seem daunting if you don't have it yourself. However, understanding just a little bit can put you miles ahead.
Want More Sex in Your Relationship? - My secret tool for bringing back the sex
I've written a lot about how important it is to keep dating your partner. But, I still need to give you my fundamental secret tool, how you can work together to plan a date. Using the 5 love languages to plan date nights is a great way to be thoughtful without putting in too much thought.
These are specific love-language-speaking-intimacy-building-memorable-date-night plans. And yes, it does require a little planning and effort up top. But if you do it properly, you should have years of date nights planned ahead.
How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Relationships - What attachments styles are and how to find yours
Have you ever been called "clingy"? Or "emotionally absent"? You behave these ways because your attachment style in relationships molds how you act. There are four different attachment styles, three of which are insecure, one is secure. The good news is that you can change your attachment style.
How to Stop Fighting in a Relationship - 10 tips to communicate better
We aren't taught how to communicate when we're growing up. This lack of understanding tends to show up later in life when it is really important, like with our partners. Communication is vital to developing a secure attachment and enhancing intimacy.