Beyond the G-spot - The 4 deep vaginal erogenous zones and how to find them
So many vulva-owners only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. While this is entirely normal, perhaps some more experimentation could be beneficial. Your deep vaginal erogenous zones may help you experience penetrative orgasmic pleasure.
Deep vaginal erogenous zones are areas inside the vagina which provide pleasure and potentially orgasms. They are the V-spot, the G-spot, the A-spot, and the O-spot.
Learning where each of these zones is will give your solo-sex and lovemaking a new kind of depth.
There are four deep vaginal erogenous zones (DVEZ). Each is in its unique place.
Let's explore these areas, how you can find them, and ways to stimulate them!
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The V-spot
The "V" stands for the vaginal vestibule or the opening/entry point of the vagina.
The V-spot is found beyond the outer and inner lips at the bottom part of the vaginal opening.
It is an area densely packed with nerves. It can also be an indicator of whether or not you're ready for penetration.
When fully aroused, this area will almost suck in whatever is stimulating the vulva or vagina.
You may find you enjoy pressure or vibrations on the V-spot.
Try this:
Go through your usual vulva-based arousal process and grab some lubricant.
Generously apply lubricant to one or two of your fingers. Gently use your fingers to stimulate your vaginal opening. Try and feel how it is responding.
Use one finger and wait for a vaginal invitation. Does your V-spot gently pull your finger in? If you get the "yes" from your V-spot, you can begin to penetrate yourself slowly. You can also try varying kinds of massage or pressure on the V-spot itself.
The G-spot
The G-spot is a highly publicized DVEZ. You're likely to find that every other sex toy is "designed" for G-spot stimulation. While there are countless G-spot vibrators available, this area is generally not receptive to vibrations.
However, it isn't easy for everyone to find.
Lay on your back and go through your arousal process as you usually do during solo sex. Once your V-spot responds, insert one or two lubricated fingers into the vagina. Curve your fingers up towards your belly button. Your G-spot is usually about 5-7 cm inside of you. Every body is unique so that it may be closer or further from your vaginal opening. Often it has a different texture than the rest of the vaginal canal.
If you're having difficulty finding your g-spot, don't worry! You may have additional tissue in the area, making it more difficult to find.
The G-spot is often responsible for "squirting" or female ejaculation.
Try this:
After penetrating your V-spot, take a deep breath and get comfortable having your fingers inside your vagina. You may notice that as your arousal deepens, your vaginal tissues become engorged and warmer.
If you're using multiple fingers, join them together. Shift your hand so your palm rests on the vulva and your fingers curve towards the ceiling.
Use your fingers to make a "come hither" motion as if you were beckoning someone to come closer to you. Repeat the come hither movement at whatever pace suits you. Adjust the pressure to find what you like. Pay attention to what your body is telling you, and take your time.
The A-spot
The A-spot is located close to your cervix and is slightly above the bladder. Its formal name is the "anterior fornix erogenous zone." It's on the same wall of the vagina as your G-spot, the belly button side.
The A-spot is the area that you stimulate during penetrative sex. Its sensitivity and location will change throughout your cycle and level of arousal. Applying pressure to the A-spot can help trigger deep cervical orgasms.
Finding and exploring the A-spot can be challenging, so you may have to get creative with toys and positions.
Try this:
You've spent time with your V-spot and G-spot already. You're aroused and ready for deeper penetration. As your breath deepens, push deeper and deeper into your vagina.
Try turning onto your stomach. This position invites the palm of your hand to press into your vulva and clitoris. It will also push your fingers deeper inside you.
You could also try lying on your side with your leg up for easier access.
Feel around the deepest parts of your vagina. See if you can find an area that feels different to the touch or brings specific pleasure.
See if your A-spot enjoys the same "come hither" motion, figure 8s, or the pressure of a finger or two. It's all about learning what pleases you.
The O-spot
The O-spot is sometimes called the C-spot because it is close to your cervix. It's found either directly on your cervix or directly above it. The O-spot is located on the bottom wall of your vagina.
The O-spot's nerve endings are attached to the cervix, the A-spot, and other parts of your erotic anatomy. It can be a challenging place to reach.
Many people find cervical stimulation a little too sensitive for direct stimulation. Therefore, the O-spot is often best pleased through anal play.
Try this:
You've awakened your body thoroughly with V-spot, G-spot, and A-spot play. Now, you're likely to be in an area where your fingers can't reach easily. Ask a partner or grab a long sex toy to help you.
Lift your legs to allow for deeper penetration. Move towards the back part of the vagina—angle the penis or toy at a downward angle towards your spine.
You may come up against a rubbery wall; this is your cervix or gateway to your uterus. Try gentle, back and forth pressure when you've found it. Take your time and allow your body to tell you what it wants. Play with rhythm, speed, and pulsations. Learn what you like and be open to adjustments.
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Now, these are only the deep vaginal zones. They all form aspects of a beautiful arousal network where each part works together, including with your clitoris.
These beautiful areas of pleasure should be experimented with frequently. You never know what preferences could change for you.
If you want to learn more about unlocking vaginal sexual pleasure, contact me today.
“Women secretly love to talk about their vagina. They get very excited, mainly because no one has ever asked them before.”
— Eve Ensler, The Vagina Monologues
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