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As a sex, dating, and relationship coach, I understand that some people learn best by reading. That’s why I’m constantly writing new blog posts about sex, dating, and relationships so everyone can access this information. I’m writing here to help you and to start a conversation.
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Beginner's Guide to Sex Toys for Men: Your ultimate buying guide
The number of female sex toys on the market is overwhelming. Aren't men supposed to have a higher sex drive? You wouldn't be able to tell from looking at the shelves of most sex toy stores. When you finally find the small section dedicated to male pleasure, you may not know what you're looking at. That's okay! That's why I've put together this beginner's guide to sex toys for men. After reading this, you'll be confident walking into adult shops worldwide.
Prostate Health and Pleasure - What you need to know
The prostate is a walnut-shaped gland that is part of the male (penis-owner) reproductive and ejaculatory system. It is highly regarded by backdoor pleasure enthusiasts because of the earth-rocking orgasms it provides.
Understanding what the prostate is, where it is, and what it does can help you unlock layers of sexual pleasure you haven’t yet experienced.
Part 4 of Anal 101: How to Enjoy Anal Penetration - A step-by-step guide
You’re ready to get to the good stuff, but you want to be prepared. There are plenty of ways to do anal sex wrong on your first try.
I’m going to talk about how to do anal sex the right way your first time.
This article is the final piece in my exhaustive Anal 101 series. I strongly suggest you read the previous three parts so that you have all the information you could ever need.
Part 3 of Anal 101: Beginner’s Guide to Anal Training - How you’ll learn to love anal sex
If you're anxious about anal play, there is an easy way to make it more pleasurable. Anal training allows you to get familiar with the feeling of having something in your backside. It also can help stretch things out, so you're better prepared for penetration.
Part 2 of Anal 101: How to Douche - A step-by-step guide to anal douching
Anal sex is a topic filled with mystery and poor information. So is anal douching. While it isn’t 100% necessary to douche before starting with anal play, it can help you feel clean, sexy, and ready to go. Cleaning yourself can help reduce anxiety around anal play. Stress or concern about anal play is very common. Learning what you need to relax and enjoy yourself will be helpful along your anal pleasure journey.
Part 1 of Anal 101 - The Anatomy You Need to Know: Why anal feels good and how to make it feel better
No one wants to start anal sex with no idea of what to expect. Knowing your anal anatomy will help you prepare for training and penetration. It will also make your anal experience positive and pleasurable. I’m breaking down how to have anal sex into four key pieces. You'll become an anal expert overnight!
Beginner’s Guide to Lube Shopping: The 5 types and what they’re best for (and what to avoid)
When it comes to sex of any kind, wetter is better. However, choosing the perfect lubricant is difficult. There is so much variety available. How can you decide which lubricant is best for you?
There are five main types of lubricants. Water-based lubricants, Silicone-based lubricants, hybrid lubricants, naturally-based lubricants, and oil-based lubricants.
To choose just one, you need to know (1) is it condom compatible? (2) is it suitable for your skin type? (3) does it meet your sexual needs?